Queens supposed to see queens. But it’s us “queens” who are also very quick to tear down others. Start a scandal. Make people’s lives miserable etc etc. We also tend to be our own worst enemies. I’m pro queen but some of our queens need to be called out. So heres what I gotta say:
In 2020. Don’t be that girl.
Don’t be that envious girl. The girl that doesn’t work as hard but has the most to say when someone worthy achieves something.
Don’t be that girl that does things just and solely for recognition
Dont be that girl whose known to be a gossip monger amongst a crowd or community. The one whose in everyones business.
Don’t be that girl who has pent up anger. Forgive. Let go and let God.
Don’t be the girl that misplaces her anger. I mean if you wanna be angry, be angry at the right people sis.
Don’t be that girl whose bitter because a relationship didn’t work out and then goes and speaks about baby daddy’s new queen because it makes you feel better. Do yourself a favour and make yourself feel better by legit being better. Focus on you, get your life, flourish.
Don’t be that girl who uses their kid as a pawn to get what you want from your kids daddy. It’s disgusting. It’s desperate and we don’t do that here. We’re raising our future leaders. Even men need their peace of mind. Stop using your kids opportunity to say your say. It’s embarrassing mamacita.
Don’t be that girl whose worth is determined by a man. Know your worth!
Don’t be that girl who does shit to others and when karma knocks at your door you throw yourself on floors and play victim. Grow up sis, straighten that crown and use your energy wisely.
Don’t be that girl who would rather use their mouth to belittle someone rather than inspire and help others.
Don’t be that girl that gets consumed by things that are out of your control. Life it’s honestly too short. Conrol what you can and leave rest the left to God.
Don’t be that girl who hates on behalf of someone else. It’s unnecessary and it’s childish. If you are going to fester such, atleast let it be valid.
The world is toxic enough. The load is heavy already. Just cut the BS out and let’s all keep it moving. There is enough peace, happiness and joy to go around, don’t waste your life trying to steal someone else’s.
Love and light, from just an ordinary almost-30 year old