Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #44

Dear future husband,

How are our mornings going to be? 

Is it going to be rushed? Are we going to be gliding passed each other rushing to the opposite ends of the room? Is it going to be so rushed that we only have time for a sip of coffee and barge out the house with a slice of toast in our hands whilst we trying to get our selves fully dressed on the way to the car?

 Are we going to be so rushed that the only words we utter is “bye or see you later”.?

Gawsh I hope not. I envision our mornings to be happy. We read our morning prayer together, you get yourself ready whilst I prepare lunches and breakfast. We sit and eat our breakfast together and talk about anything, even the day ahead. I envision that we leave the house calmly, wishing peace and blessings upon each other with a gentle kiss and ending our greeting off with an ” I love you” 

Is this wishful thinking? Oh but I hope not. 

With love, 

Your future wife 

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #41

Dear future husband,

It’s Sunday, house is clean, washings done and lunch is taken care of. Can we just bath and watch movies or Tv series the WHOLE day? 

It’s feels like one of those lazy days. Will you be my lazy bones for the day 😃


Your future wife 

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #39

Dear future husband

I actually don’t feel like speaking today, in fact, I don’t feel like anything. I’m numb. My sister and nieces have left for China and won’t be back for a while.

If ever you’re with me and something as huge as this happens, this is how I react: 

I hate showing people that I cry, so I will keep busy, be snappy, or isolate myself completely and if you do happen to see me cry and ask “why” or “are you ok” I will cry more.

Please don’t take this in any other way or become impatient, defensive or moody when I’m like this. This will be the time that I need you the most, even if it’s with you just being there.

I hope you you will understand. 


Your future wife 

Love, life & everything's else in between

#DFH #35

Dear future husband,

I have future aspirations. 

I’ve started writing a book, I want to study , I have projects and companies that I have dreams of starting and opening. I want you to be apart of this. 

Now I don’t expect our interests to be the same  but I do expect us to be actively involved in each other’s interests. It’s all about compromise and support.

I would want to offer my support , my encouragement , ideas or even my time for something that is dear to you and would so appreciate it if you would do the same for me.

Having somebody push you when you need to be pushed towards your dream is something many can only hope for. Especially with life’s knocks and unexpected turns. 

I don’t want to just hope for this. I want this and I need this.

A request, 

From your future wife 

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #30

Dear future husband,

Valentine’s Day isn’t a biggy for me because I believe love should be celebrated everyday.

However, being as sentimental as I am, I would probably get you something , like I would on any random day and would appreciate any gesture you show and efforts you make to do the same for me.

Can’t wait to love you with my all.

Your future wife 

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #31

Dear future husband, 

Thank you in advance for all the things you’re gonna do for me, for the happiness, the love and the support.

Thank you in advance for you being willing to share my dreams and turning them into a reality. 

Thank you in advance for the amazing husband you’re going to be and for bringing out the best in me; thank you in advance for the beautiful kids we’re gonna have and for every mild stone that we’re going to achieve together; our home, cars, traveling or even us praying together still when eish goes south.

I cannot wait to express my gratitude for being treated like a Queen. 


Your future wife 

Girl power, Love, life & everything's else in between, motivation and inspiration, personal

#DFH #27

I am not what you think I should be. Accept me for who I am. 

I am not my hair,

My body or 

The way I batter my eye lashes. 

I am not the price of what  I wear, who I speak to or perfume I wear.

I am not the shape of my eyebrows, the piercings that I have or the things that I own. 

I will not conform to what societies say I should conform to. I will never be a well- behaved women! 

I am however,


Everything I do is based  on my mood and according to what feels good in my soul. Mainly on what God says I should be doing or how I should be acting… 

I am my connections and interaction with people.

I am my ability to follow the word of the almighty.

I am flaw-filled, so much so that my cup runneth over.

I am my ability to fail at things, and then get back up and try again.

I am my will to be better and do good all the time. Whether I get it right or not is a story for another day. 

I am my urge to keep things 100 all the time.

I am my desire to respect others.

You will see me all prim and proper one day and then a vagabont the next. It’s all on me. 

I am my morals and my values.

I am my modesty; the way I dress according to how God says I should and the way I interact with people.

I am a product of God. 

I am me and that is enough! Please do not put me in a box 📦 

Some things to know about me 🙂 

Your future wife