Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #37 

Whilst I want to cater to and for you, please don’t take advantage of that. I’m not you maid or your mama.

You put that toilet seat down if you lift it up for any reason. You put your dirty clothes in the laundry basket and dare not leave it on the floor where you took em off and that plate and glass you used? You , at the very least, put in it in sink.

Yes! I’ll be that wife. We’re adults so I’m sure this won’t be a problem? If it will be, child…!

Thanking you in advance,

Your future wife 😊

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #36

Dear future husband,

Some of the very important people in my life are guys. Yes, I have boys as friends; true friends.

Would this be a problem? I really hope not because I know that when you meet them, you will appreciate them as much as I. 

They have helped see me through some hectic parts of my life. They inspire me to do and be better each day in my pursuits to follow what I love doing.

I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this. For now though, it’s the day of Jumua so Juma Mubarak my love and may peace and blessings be upon you always Xx

Your future wife ❤️

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #34

I wanna be like the kyles from my wife and kids.

I think their relationship dynamics and their way of parenting is so cool.Fun but always with a lesson learnt. 

I love their unity and how they feed off each other’s crazy. I love their insane ways of offering their support and interest in each other’s goals. I love how God remains at the center of what the do. 

Am I crazy to want to be like people from a sitcom ? Does relationships like this even exist?

Can we be like this anyway? Can we never forget our friendship and can we keep the fun rolling…even when we need to teach lessons or when we’re needing to be taught? Can we feed off each other’s crazy and build each other up as opposed to breaking each other down? Can our ideas be tried no matter how ludicrous they may seem? Can our love be unconditional and be selfless? 

A plea, 

From your future wife 


Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #21

Dear future husband,

Tonight I am not my normal, usual bubbly, happy and super energized self. I’m pretty much an emotional  wreck, throwing herself  a pity party whilst finishing Miks book.

Would you stick around and put up with me ? Offer your support by just being there next to me? I really would appreciate it if you would when I have these episodes.

From your emotional future wife 

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #14

Dear future husband 

I love speaking. Can we set aside time in our day to just speak. Pleas ? 

About everything and anything; goals, jokes, a soccer game, the instrumentals in a song or even the weather. The Devine powers of  God or even what needs to be done around the house?

Can you promise to keep our communication channels open even when we having tough or not so nice days? 

I’d really appreciate it 🙂 

A sincere request from,

Your future wife