Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

DFH #66

Dear future husband,

I may have mentioned this before but I feel I need to mention it again:

Love God

Love yourself

and then come and love me.

I want all of you, the best of you. I don’t want pieces of you. Prepare yourself to be great in the eyes of God so that you can be great for me. I promise that I am doing the same.

Love,

Your future wife.

Love, life & everything's else in between, motivation and inspiration, personal

#DFH #51

Dear future husband, 

My parents get back today. They’ve been on vacay in China for the passed month.

I have this thing where upon fetching them, I make a “welcome home poster”. Just a small gesture to express my excitement re: their return.


I will do this for you too, should you travel without me be it for work etc. I will be at their airport/ bus or train station with a colourful poster and dashing, Colgate smile waiting for your arrival.

What I do hope is, is that you would join in on this venture.

I hope that you too would get in and help me make these posters for any of our family or friends who return after travelling. 

I want us to be that couple. The positive couple known for their sentimentality and sincere gestures. The couple that goes out of their way to help others and to spread happiness, love and light. The go-to couple when people need a dose of motivation. 

Really hope you’d appreciate this gesture when I do it for you and that you would join in and help when I’m doing it for my family and friends or your family and friends.

We putting it out there (:

Hope you have an amazing day

Loads of love,

Your ordinary, future wife 💋

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #28

Dear future husband,

I know I haven’t posted to you in a while; life! And me just being pre-occupied.

So it’s Sunday! My usual is to wake up, clean and do linen, then go see Mbali ( my mentee) and then well I am free. 

Will you join me and do all of this with me or would you be on your own beat? 

I personally, would prefer you telling me what your normal routine is and then us compromising and doing most of it together. 
We need to lay a solid foundation and then we start building our own empire. You game? 

Loads of love,

Your future wife 

Xx

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #24

Dear future husband,

It’s Monday , a new week and a new chance to be better versions of ourselves.

Will you make smart, individual and couple goals with me? Can we sit and make vision boards together and help each other  achieve them? 

I would appreciate it and I hope you will too.

Wishing you a productive week ahead xx

Love,

Your future wife 

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #23

Dear future husband,

Can we make showing appreciation a thing? Please?

I envision us creating a habit whereby weekly we should write down one good thing or change we’ve noticed about each otherx Then, on our date night (because we should have one weekly) we exchange what we’re appreciative of. 

I also envision us extending this to when we have kids. It will be a household , weekly ritual. We will make time where we all come together and exchange our positive acknowledgments about each other.

What you say? You with me on this one?

With love always,

Your future wife 

❤️