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#DFH #52

Dear future husband,

I want to lay in bed and just talk until 3 in the morning. Laugh, cry. Alles. I want to talk about anything and everything. With you. And maybe some snacks. 

Looking forward to it

Love, our future wife 

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#DFH #51

Dear future husband, 

My parents get back today. They’ve been on vacay in China for the passed month.

I have this thing where upon fetching them, I make a “welcome home poster”. Just a small gesture to express my excitement re: their return.


I will do this for you too, should you travel without me be it for work etc. I will be at their airport/ bus or train station with a colourful poster and dashing, Colgate smile waiting for your arrival.

What I do hope is, is that you would join in on this venture.

I hope that you too would get in and help me make these posters for any of our family or friends who return after travelling. 

I want us to be that couple. The positive couple known for their sentimentality and sincere gestures. The couple that goes out of their way to help others and to spread happiness, love and light. The go-to couple when people need a dose of motivation. 

Really hope you’d appreciate this gesture when I do it for you and that you would join in and help when I’m doing it for my family and friends or your family and friends.

We putting it out there (:

Hope you have an amazing day

Loads of love,

Your ordinary, future wife 💋

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#DFH #50

Dear Future husband 

I’m not superficial but I am sentimental. 

The engagement

When you propose , I imagine that it would be romantic, the whole “get down on one knee” type of vibe. I want you to have gone to my folk to ask them for my hand in marriage. Then plan something romantic #theoldschoolway.  I don’t need an engagement party actually.

The wedding 

I don’t want a lavish wedding but I would want one none the less, just a small one with those closest to us. Us dressed up. Intimate venue, decorated and lovely food. 

I really don’t need a honey moon to be quite frank. 

I want our union to bring people together. To be blessed. So no alcohol. People must be in their right senses celebrating with us.

I want our union to bring happiness and love and joy to all those that will share the special day with us. I want to get dressed up and wear my madora and have my mendhi on, with a pair of kicks not because it’s a must but because I can and because I would want that. 

I want my make- up to be subtle but beautiful, creating a perfect balance between natural and glam.

I want to give my mum the opportunity and experience of giving the “mother of the bride” speech and to fix whatever’s wrong with my dress, madora or face. 

I want that day to give my father the reassurance that I’m marrying somebody who would take care of as he would, should need be.

I want to give my friends the opportunity of running around trying to get eish done to plan our small intimate wedding and want to beable to look into our guests eyes and see that “twinkle”. 

I want to share my joy, our joy and I would want to share it with those close to us.

Dear future husband, I want to beable to look at my inlaws and see a sense of pride on their faces. I want to beable to reassure them on the day, that I will look of their son as they would. Give them the opportunity to say their say and blessings over us and to give us hilarious speeches of some of your “growing-up” memories.

I want to us to pray , there and then. You. Me. and our guests.

I want happiness. I want alil chaos, I want unity, love and peace. I want our marriage to be sealed by Allah. 

I want you. I want all of this and I want them.

A heartfelt desire,

Your ordinary future wife (:❤️

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#DFH #47

Dear future husband,

I’ve decided to go back to #nocarbs #nosugars. 

You will know by reading through my blogs that I have an issue with my weight. 

None the less, this can make me real grumpy because you know food is life for me. 

Please don’t take anything personal, generally the grumpiness lasts for about a week, just until the cravings are gone.

Just a warning 😃 in case I fall off the bantwagon and start again

Your future wife ❤️

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #45

Dear future husband,

All that I offer to you in these posts are things I’m going to do for you when we first meet, when we’re 40, 50 and 60. 

I will love you on the last day like I did the first , if not more. Kindly note that this includes my flaws too. So be prepared.

I will cook for you, declare my love in scribbles or on a plate. I will honour , appreciate and support you in all your endeavors. I promise to keep my smart mouth and fiesty attitude (giggles). 

I certainly hope that all the things I ask from you will be returned. I want you to know that even though I will freely love  you , I would still want you to earn my love everyday, like I would for you. I would not want you to get complacent. Because I will not become complacent. 

I would want to be your profile picture when I’m 50 like I would be  now. I want you to buy me flowers ‘coz it’s Wednesday when we’re retired, like I would want it when you send them to me at work in our courting days. I would want love notes 📝 when we making tea toothless and greyed like I would when when I’m highly pregnant and you’re packing my lunchbox. 

I basically want our love to be consistent. If you only going to do things to “catch” me and then get complacent thereafter, then I don’t want it, any of it. 

I’m talking about real love, consistent love, unconditional love. I’m talking about choosing to celebrate me even at my lowest, now and forever. I’m not talking about superficial love. I’m talking about solid ,ride or die love.

Are you with me ? I hope you with you with. Please be with me. 

Secret desires,

From your future wife 

💋 

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#DFH #43

Dear future husband,

I’m always emotional around this time of year. Miks birthday being just 4days before mine. I hardly ever get excited for it.

13 March .

I hope you understand that this doesn’t mean I’m still stuck in my passed. But this is my son, whom I carried. My first born and so he will always have a place in my heart. 

I will appreciate your support because that very child has turned me into the women I am today. 

I don’t know if this is wishful thinking , but I’m going to put it out there anyway.I would totally love you taking me to his grave; making this a “thing” we regularly do. To clean it and pray for him. To save towards placing his tomb stone ( I can do it on my own) but having your support would be great. 

Anyways, just thought I’d let you know. If I’m not myself around this time of year when we’re together. Atleast you know why now 🙂

With love,

Your future wife