Love, life & everything's else in between, motivation and inspiration, personal

#DFH #51

Dear future husband, 

My parents get back today. They’ve been on vacay in China for the passed month.

I have this thing where upon fetching them, I make a “welcome home poster”. Just a small gesture to express my excitement re: their return.


I will do this for you too, should you travel without me be it for work etc. I will be at their airport/ bus or train station with a colourful poster and dashing, Colgate smile waiting for your arrival.

What I do hope is, is that you would join in on this venture.

I hope that you too would get in and help me make these posters for any of our family or friends who return after travelling. 

I want us to be that couple. The positive couple known for their sentimentality and sincere gestures. The couple that goes out of their way to help others and to spread happiness, love and light. The go-to couple when people need a dose of motivation. 

Really hope you’d appreciate this gesture when I do it for you and that you would join in and help when I’m doing it for my family and friends or your family and friends.

We putting it out there (:

Hope you have an amazing day

Loads of love,

Your ordinary, future wife 💋

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #47

Dear future husband,

I’ve decided to go back to #nocarbs #nosugars. 

You will know by reading through my blogs that I have an issue with my weight. 

None the less, this can make me real grumpy because you know food is life for me. 

Please don’t take anything personal, generally the grumpiness lasts for about a week, just until the cravings are gone.

Just a warning 😃 in case I fall off the bantwagon and start again

Your future wife ❤️

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #39

Dear future husband

I actually don’t feel like speaking today, in fact, I don’t feel like anything. I’m numb. My sister and nieces have left for China and won’t be back for a while.

If ever you’re with me and something as huge as this happens, this is how I react: 

I hate showing people that I cry, so I will keep busy, be snappy, or isolate myself completely and if you do happen to see me cry and ask “why” or “are you ok” I will cry more.

Please don’t take this in any other way or become impatient, defensive or moody when I’m like this. This will be the time that I need you the most, even if it’s with you just being there.

I hope you you will understand. 

Love,

Your future wife 

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #23

Dear future husband,

Can we make showing appreciation a thing? Please?

I envision us creating a habit whereby weekly we should write down one good thing or change we’ve noticed about each otherx Then, on our date night (because we should have one weekly) we exchange what we’re appreciative of. 

I also envision us extending this to when we have kids. It will be a household , weekly ritual. We will make time where we all come together and exchange our positive acknowledgments about each other.

What you say? You with me on this one?

With love always,

Your future wife 

❤️

Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DearFutureHusband #DFH #11

Dear future husband,

It’s the day of Jumu’ah today. Juma Mubarak 💋

I can’t wait to wake up and read our morning prayer together, read some Quran together and then make dua together. 

I look forward to the day where I iron your Kurtta and take out a matching kufia for you; getting you ready for the auspicious day. 

I look forward to you coming home and telling me what the Khutba at mosque was all about whilst we having supper.

Dear future husband, I need you to lead our home in prayer.

With loads of love and gratitude 

Your future wife