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A reminder: it’s okay to ask for help.

It’s okay to have down days and it’s even more okay to ask for help on those days.

Yesterday I woke up and my spirits were literally scraping the floor. I asked some of my contacts on my what’sapp list to send me some positive stuff. Man, the support and amount of positive dosages I got were enough to get my spirits up and about.

I’m going to share some of the stuff I received yesterday with you, incase you’re having my yesterday, today.

Each post I received moved me and heightened my spirits. People took time to send me stuff, just because I was down and expected nothing in return.

May God bless each and every one of you who helped me through yesterday. Aaameeen.

Love and light always; an appreciation from just an ordinary girl. đź’‹

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Woman bashing by women, it’s a thing!

2018, The wake

2018 has left me feeling all sorts of emo.

Whilst there have been some very exciting milestones that occurred, it has been THE most stressful year by far… Check my blogging activity and you’ll agree.

Throughout everything that has happend, I almost lost myself. I allowed situations to define me. I allowed the built up frustration and anger to poison my thoughts. Heck I was almost even ready to stoop down to levels I swore I’d never go too.

Two hospital admissions, a court order and several encounters later… The drama still persisted. But something had to give and it gave indeed.

Whilst I won’t go into detail about the drama or even the betrayal. I would just like to touch base on something that became so apparent and is by far my biggest gripe with 2018.

Woman bashing…by women.

I think I was so alarmed that such women existed that I started questioning whether I was sane. I couldn’t and still find it hard to believe that there are women out here who literally spend time, lots of it, planning to destroy or make someone’s life a misery. Like do these people not fear God. Have they never felt peace and true happiness?

I mean how do you hate someone you’ve never met? How do you use someone’s past painful experiences to intentionally try to inflict more pain. How do you use everything in your way to purposely break another women’s spirit. If I was some weakling I’d either be in jail or a mad house.

This is what is wrong with the world first before the Trumps or Zumas. It’s us women. We hate it when its done to us but it’s justifiable to do it to someone else. We’d never accept if it were done to our daughters, sisters or besties but we encourage our sons to do it to their wives or friends to do it to someone else. We speak about being Godfearing but we ignore God’s messages.

It became so clear that women are so quick to judge fellow women but when we or one of our friends are in the same boat, we get enraged.

Our sons see this, and think it’s okay to do it because mom, sister or cousin does it. Our daughters see this and grow up thinking it’s okay to women bash.

We as women set ourselves up for failure. It’s pathetic. It’s shameful. It’s common and It’s sad. We birth nations. It’s time we stop focusing on the wrongs of others; men, fellow women etc. and start fixing ourself.

Heck it’s 2019. Peace and happiness should be the order of this year. Drama and all things negative are to be left in the past.

My wish

My prayer for every women reading this and for those who are guilty of this behavior is that you heal, that God allows you peace and true joy.

I pray that we as women become so busy with fixing ourselves that we have no time to tear each other down. I pray that God keeps us busy and focused on our own families and goals so that the devil doesn’t have a chance to toy with us. I pray for change, for all of us. Aaameeen.

Mantra

What other people think of me is none of my business.

Don’t lose yourself and remeber a queen never leaves her throne to address peasants throwing stones.

Love and light always, feelings of just an ordinary girl

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Quote of the day: 2019

We’re starting this thread again, to get us back into action.

Act the way you’d like to be… And soon you’ll be the way you act.

Leonard Cohen

You are what you think and practice really does make perfect.

Good morning world. Good morning Monday. Good morning new blessings and new oppotunities.

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Love and light always, from just an ordinary quote lover.

Xx

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Inspiration: The sunflower

Did you know that Sunflowers are the symbol of faith, loyalty and adoration? Did you also know that they’re one of my favourite flowers? Here’s why:

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According to Google, sunflowers follow the movement of the sun across the sky from east to west, and this process is known as heliotropism.

They are commonly seen growing and blossoming in the worst of environments; waste areas, along side roads and in random fields.

There is something so meaningful about that don’t you think? Something so symbolic. Something so stunningly beautiful growing in the worse of places and often, places where people don’t offer much care.

In 2019.

Let us be like the sun flower; follow the light and continue to grow and blossom even when we’re in the worst parts of our lives.

Love and light always.

Random thoughts from just an ordinary girl