Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #42

Dear future husband 

I don’t know if I’ve asked or told you this before but I feel I need to again.

Please be consistent.

Don’t get me used to certain gestures and then suddenly stop when you see fit or feel like it. 

My actions and my love is never inconsistent. I don’t expect yours to be either. 

I pay attention to everything and if you can do certain things when you’re still trying to “get” me. You should continue doing those things, if not more, to keep me. I take note of everything, remember that.

I don’t have time for mediocre. So if you’re here to be inconsistent then I don’t want it. #imnotsettling

Just a heads up,

From your future wife 

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Love, life & everything's else in between, personal

#DFH #44

Dear future husband,

How are our mornings going to be? 

Is it going to be rushed? Are we going to be gliding passed each other rushing to the opposite ends of the room? Is it going to be so rushed that we only have time for a sip of coffee and barge out the house with a slice of toast in our hands whilst we trying to get our selves fully dressed on the way to the car?

 Are we going to be so rushed that the only words we utter is “bye or see you later”.?

Gawsh I hope not. I envision our mornings to be happy. We read our morning prayer together, you get yourself ready whilst I prepare lunches and breakfast. We sit and eat our breakfast together and talk about anything, even the day ahead. I envision that we leave the house calmly, wishing peace and blessings upon each other with a gentle kiss and ending our greeting off with an ” I love you” 

Is this wishful thinking? Oh but I hope not. 

With love, 

Your future wife